Reflect on the real options

Conflicts arise due to assumptions and beliefs that one's own abilities or concepts are imagined without justified reasoning. Always remember that you cannot know what a person is thinking; you can only observe their actions and make educated guesses about potential outcomes. This can place you in a difficult position where finding a favorable outcome is challenging. It's important to justify your own thoughts and actions, but also acknowledge that you are not always right, and what you do may not always benefit others.

The key is to recognize your actual position and its impact on controlling the situation. Elevating your position in your mind can distort the information you receive, leading to potential distractions from necessary goals and risking regression or loss of progress. Sometimes, even positive outcomes may not be what you expected, but they can provide valuable learning experiences that shape future decisions.

For example, in my personal experience of navigating disagreements with my spouse, it often feels like there's only one option: to agree with her predetermined decision. However, this perceived limitation is not reflective of reality; there are always multiple options available. When our thought patterns lack a solid foundation, conflicts can arise from a few simple questions, revealing the fragility of our assumptions.

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Results are Consequences

Options and the resulting consequences of our actions are constantly unfolding, and people are discussing and either learning from them or failing to do so. Critical thinking involves reflecting on past situations to develop a wiser approach to interacting with similar circumstances in the future. Change is inevitable, and while some may choose to maintain their approach if it yields favorable results, others may opt to adapt in pursuit of better outcomes.

When faced with conflicts of interest, it's essential to slow down and methodically break down the situation to identify desired results. While it may not always be possible to achieve every desired outcome, striving for the most attainable goals can lead to incremental progress without significant loss. Embracing discomfort in challenging situations can foster growth, whether through goal-oriented perseverance or the frustration that drives innovation.

Understanding the codes of the game and memorizing its glitches—learning from adversity—can ultimately lead to a stronger position. The concept of the matrix serves as a metaphor for the artificial construct of self versus the reality of underlying functions. While we may strive to approach reality as closely as possible, it's essential to acknowledge and accept the inherent limitations of our perception. Living with this understanding allows us to navigate the complexities of the real world more effectively, recognizing that actions have consequences.

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Lack of resolve

I understand if you've lost the resolve to continue seeking a position in life that will yield better results, and it's tempting to proclaim your intention to fight but then lose steam in the first round. However, this isn't about what I believe you should do; it's more about exploring the options you see. I believe you can move towards a more positive position that opens up more opportunities.

My belief in these options doesn't matter; what matters is your choice, whether to pursue them or not. Your ability to elevate your position often requires time and effort, whether established by others or by yourself. When you can only rely on yourself, taking the necessary steps becomes paramount. Look for opportunities that arise and persevere in reaching your desired goals and outcomes.

In my own life, I've found that merely wanting something isn't enough to achieve the desired results. It's about finding a position that brings me closer to my goal and then taking action to move toward it. While I wish I could reach every goal quickly and effortlessly, that's not my reality. Instead, I remain focused on exploring options and seeking better positions with each step I take.

I constantly ask myself: What are my options? How can I progress? What steps are needed to get closer to my goal? How far along am I in this journey, and what step will bring me closer to it? Though it may feel like beating a dead horse at times, this process gives me a sense of accomplishment and purpose in life.

My ultimate goal isn't fame or recognition; it's simply to pursue my own path and discover who I am when no one is watching. And I find fulfillment in that journey.

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Testing my Ideas

I actually don't want people to agree with me on many of my thoughts; I welcome argument and the emergence of new ideas from conversations. I believe that people are more intelligent than they allow themselves to be, and effective communication begins with recognizing each person's value.

Throughout my career, I've predominantly worked in labor, engaging with millionaires and the poor alike. The main difference I observed was in their positions and the goals derived from their circumstances. The wealthy individual isn't inherently special; rather, their advantage lies in their ability to seize opportunities and leverage their resources. More money affords more options: whether it's hiring the best lawyer to avoid jail time or focusing on life after a trial while conserving finances.

Constantly considering options may seem to lighten the burden of choices that led to one's current situation. However, I've realized that my perspective on my circumstances is unique, and engaging with others may yield valuable insights. While I don't blindly trust others' opinions, I listen to their perspectives, understanding that they offer a viewpoint distinct from my own. It's essential to take ownership of the situation and identify critical points that can lead to a better outcome.

I am asserting authority over my life and actions, navigating the challenges of the real world with determination. Life may be a harsh teacher, but I am willing to listen and learn from its experiences, fully engaged in the journey.